First, find a cliff (preferably a windy one that is not too far from home so you don’t need to contemplate travel insurance and so that your acute oncology hotline card is still useful).
Next, enjoy a bracing walk up to said cliff (avoiding the edge so as not to add cliff diving to the day’s itinerary).
When you reach the top, expose your beautifully bald head to the elements (having liberally applied factor 50+ sun cream before the climb due to increased skin sensitivity while on chemo). I am nothing if not a health-conscious blogger!
Then, enjoy! Feel the wind blast your head. Savour the fact you can see for miles without having to remove strands of hair from your face and line of sight.
While I would never wish anyone to shave their head as a way of sharing in this truly invigorating experience, it is a pretty fantastic way to make the most of a hairless situation! My mum’s good friend recommended I seek out the sensation, and that’s why it is stands proudly at number 17 on my Brighter life list. I must say, it is every bit as exhilarating as it sounds!
I enjoyed the dress rehearsal in April in Dorset with my parents when I was still sporting a number two. And, I have to say, I am delighted to have been able to tick it off at last. Made possible by the wonderful Briggs family, who planned this adventure, it is a cliff top I (my little bald head and fellow coast path walkers) will never forget.
Of course, we don’t have to climb cliffs (physically or metaphorically) to achieve our dreams. We just need to work out what they are and then carve out the path that makes them possible. Life is too short to stand in the sidelines wondering ‘what if?’ I set up my Brighter life list because I want to be reminded of that fact every day. It shouldn’t have taken a serious illness to bring everything into focus. But it did.
If there’s something you’ve always wanted to do, then now is the time to start planning it. And, if you’ve already got a list of your own, but lack the motivation to start, now is the time to get ticking.
Today is not a rehearsal for tomorrow. Today is all we know we have.
6 thoughts on “Breast cancer lesson number 130: How to holiday with no hair”
So glad you enjoyed the sensation:-) seems such a simple thing but strangely enjoyable.
So the chemos over hurrah! What a journey and how well you coped with it. Now the hair will start to grow back and the next lovely sensation will happen – what I call suede head. This is that lovely feel when you run your hand over your head when your hair is new and soft. Enjoy! Love Paulax
Thanks Paula. I think the suede head is here! Soft baby fluff currently and growing fast! Take care, Jackie x
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I love this post! I’m sure it is devastating to lose one’s hair while undergoing treatment, but you have a wonderful way of mixing humor into the mix. Terrific.
Thanks Beth, that’s such a lovely thing to say. Yes, it’s not fun, but I now have the best excuse to try every hair style going! Thanks for posting. J x