Whatever New Year’s resolutions you’ve made – or even thought about making – 2016 is the year I really really want you to keep them.
Why? Well, on New Year’s Eve, I wasn’t sat in the pub, running in the park (my current favourite activity) or planning a night out to see the fireworks.
No, I was sat in the hospital being reminded of just how fragile life is.
Before I go on, I should start by saying that everything is fine. I have breathing problems (which probably require new medication) and lower back pain that seems to not want to go away.
The GP is confident it will be nothing. This time (unlike one fateful day back in December 2013), I believe him.
So why am I telling you this? I am telling you this because, despite my complete confidence that it will be nothing, I still spent NYE wondering I’d ever see another one (don’t worry, there was Champagne involved so it wasn’t all bad). And, while I then went on to write a reminder for November to buy new baubles, it did leave me with an urge to make sure 2016 is an awesome a year as the last.
It is a strange fact of life that we are often too busy rushing through each day to stop and think about what we really want that life to look like. How easy it is to write a to-do list of admin tasks or work projects. How hard it is to sit and write down exactly what you want to achieve.
I am not saying put down the laundry, quit your job and travel the world. But, I am saying, write a wish list and, if there is something you really want to do, find a way to do it – and sharpish.
It will not be easy. It is another strange fact of life that the path to happiness rarely is. But, if you want it bad enough, it will be worth the effort.
For me, the next tick on the list is the London Marathon. I ran a 10k race this morning and, with the medical issues mentioned above, I know more than ever that the next four months are going to challenge me to the limit.
But, when I think of that finish line (even starting line right now to be honest), I think of just how happy I will be to be alive.
So whatever you want to achieve in life, make 2016 the year you step towards your dreams.
If you don’t, I am coming to get you – and with these trainers, you have every reason to be scared!
Happy New Year one and all! Let’s make it brilliant.
Lots of love,
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Love this post and, yes, being in the hospital is surely a reminder of how fragile life is. I learned this through my having breast cancer years ago. I wish you the best in 2016 and good luck with the marathon.
Good for you! I haven’t been on to check your progress in a while, but I love your attitude! Now I need to get off my arse and sign up for a goal race!